From the initial planning stage, to the last minute changes, Rev. Rebecca happily assisted making whatever necessary changes needed to be made to make our special day even more spectacular! If you're looking for an officiant who exudes warmth, joy, and an overall celebration of love, then look no further. Rev. Rebecca will do an EXCEPTIONAL job for you and your guests!!! My beautiful bride and I could not have been happier with the way everything turned out this past weekend. It was perfect!

~ Bernie & Molly
I just wanted to thank you once again! Everyone enjoyed the ceremony you put together for us. Not only did you have some great innovative ideas on how to celebrate our traditions, but your marvelous personality provided a special mood to the entire celebration. You have to know that so many people asked about you - asking how we found you and commenting on how special you made the ceremony. We certainly will keep you in mind for anyone who is looking for a truly remarkable person to officiate at their wedding!

~ Patty & Bob

Thank you so much for being there to guide us through our wedding day and for helping us create a ceremony that felt special, meaningful and unique to us. We really appreciated having your strong and soothing presence there to guide us through the big day and we received so many compliments from our guests about how well the ceremony reflected us. We also loved how you brought the readings from e.e. cummings and Rilke to life. We will remember and treasure our wedding ceremony forever!

~ Hyosub & Christine
Dear Rebecca ~ Let me tell you first that we had more compliments on you and the ceremony that you helped create than anything else about our wedding. I think that is the first and best thing a couple can hope to hear. Both of our father's spoke specifically of you, of how your warmth, expression of emotion and elocution helped bring the words out from the pages of the books and into the hearts of the family and friends that had gathered. I can't believe our good luck that we found you and that you were so creative and perceptive in your selection of the readings.

~ Joseph & Garrett

Contact Rev. Rebecca at ceremonies@aol.com or call 219-778-9778
Dear Rev. Rebeca ~ What can we say? You were simply fantastic. Really great. You made our special day extra special by hitting all the right notes. The Dylan Thomas love letter couldn't have been more perfect. It was our favorite part of the entire day -- such a nice surprise from you! Both of our families thought the ceremony was the highlight of the day. ~ Deb & Chris
Dear Rebecca ~ While we're still basking in the afterglow of our event, we want you to know how truly grateful we are to you for your gentle support, encouragement, and for seeming to know what we wanted without our telling, for helping us see what we did want, for candle 'detective' work, but most of all for beautifully weaving together a ritual we will never forget. It really couldn't have been any better. Thank you, thank you. ~ Sue & Bob
We want to thank you one more time for everything you did to make our wedding a wonderful and loving experience. It would not have been the same without you. So many people expressed how much they enjoyed your presence, your words, and your exuberance! We just keep receiving such great compliments. We loved it! Until we meet again, and with loving regards. ~ Evelyn and Doug
Dear Rev. Rebecca, ~ We would just like to thank you very much for the wonderful ceremony that you performed for us yesterday. It was just perfect and exactly how we hoped our wedding day would be. We fly home to Ireland this evening and will look back on yesterday with fond thoughts. Best ~ Nuala & Matthew
Rev. Rebecca Armstrong is a minister in the liberal religious tradition, dedicated to the free and conscious search for truth. She is a graduate of the University of Chicago Divinity School, Meadville-Lombard Unitarian Seminary and The Chicago Theological Seminary. She is ordained and has practiced as a Humanist minister since 1992. After serving several Chicago area churches she chose to establish herself as a consulting minister in private practice, serving the spiritual needs of those without church affiliation.

Most of her clients describe themselves as "spiritual but not religious," and are seeking a way to express themselves in new language and images that will do justice to the depth and importance of the love they feel for one another.
Honoring some of the old ways while creating something entirley new is the only path possible for those entering the adventure of marriage in the twenty-first century!
Rev. Rebecca specializes in creating ceremonies for all of life's great transitions: weddings, christenings, coming-of-age, cronings, memorials, divorce and other rites of passage. In addition, she works with individuals, couples and families as a spiritual counselor and to create specialized rituals of transformation for healing, overcoming grief, house blessings, transitions into death, life review and spiritual legacies.

Rebecca is trained in a couples counseling program called Prepare-Enrich which has a proven track record of strengthening marriages. She offers her own form of couples counseling which focuses on soul contracts and the interpretation of metaphoric meanings in dreams and language.


Rebecca was privileged to have known the great mythologist, Joseph Campbell, (The Power of Myth) who was a family friend. From 1990 until 2004 she worked part time as International OutReach Director for the Joseph Campbell Foundation, leading seminars around the world on the importance of myth and ritual in contemporary life. She offers a form of spiritual direction and life coaching based on Campbell's understanding of what it means to "Follow Your Bliss."

(opposite is photo of Rebecca as a young woman with Joseph Campbell and her parents, George & Gerry Armstrong in 1973)


As a minister, she has been a guest preacher, educator and workshop leader in churches around the country and abroad. She co-founded an interfaith group called Friends of Compassion which pioneered many service projects here and in India. It was that work that led her to India and her meeting with the Dali Lama.


Her work has received wide attention in the media and she has been published in magazines, journals and books. She currently teaches classes in religion, ethics, philosophy, mythology and cultural anthropology at DePaul and Benedictine universities in Chicago and at Indiana and Purdue universities in Indiana.


(below is photo of Rev. Rebecca receiving a blessing from His Holiness the Dalai Lama at his summer monastery in Dharamsala, India. 2001.)
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